Prayers are also to be offered up for those who are unkind and unloving toward others. Jesus said, “But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you” (Luke 6:27, 28). Children of God will always have those who malign, and cause them harm, just as the Lord did in His last hours on the earth. His friends left Him, one even denied Him three times in one-night, religious leaders lied about Him, the cry of “Crucify Him, Crucify Him” was made, yet He still prayed, “Father forgive them, for they know not what they do” (Luke 23:34). While it may not be easy to pray for those who have caused harm and hurt, it is a command from the Lord to do so.
Prayers should go beyond physical well-being. The apostle Paul prayed for the saints at Ephesus the following; “For this cause I bow my knees unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, …And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fullness of God. Now unto Him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us, Unto Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end.
Amen” (Eph. 3:14 – 21). Paul prayed for the hearts of those Christians. He wanted them to come to a true understanding of God’s love for them through Christ that they would come to know all the blessings of being in Christ. These are things that need to be prayed for today, that Christians might grow closer to God and be strengthened in their faith.
Those who pray in public should be careful that their prayers are not for show. Such prayers are without heart, and empty for they are only said to impress men. When public prayers are said in a worship service the one praying should lead the congregation in humble, reverent words that are directed to God, not to impress the hearers. Public prayer is not the place to preach a sermon or to put someone in their place. It is a time to lead the thoughts of the congregation concerning blessings desired and thankfulness to God for what has been done.
It is not a thing to be taken lightly.
In the Lord’s instructions on prayers, He instructed His disciples to not use “vain repetitions” as the heathen did (Matt. 6:7). Idol worshipers used phrases over and over in their prayers to the gods they served (1 Kings 18:25ff).
When praying for others it may be the case that vain repetitions creep in without the user being aware. Repeating the same words in a prayer is not wrong if they are said from the heart and not just to fill space in the prayer. In times of great distress, the plea for God’s help might be repeated many times in all sincerity. In fact, Jesus did this very thing in His prayers in Gethsemane.
He prayed for the Father’s will to be done, but if possible, let “this cup pass from me”. His words were said in earnest as He faced the death of the cross. The problem comes when the words are empty and without heart. Again the mind of the one praying must be concentrating on what is needed, not just taking up time or having something to say. Remember to pray from the heart.