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Want to break your bad habit? Make this change
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Many Americans have some pretty bad habits. Here's how they can break them in one swift move. - photo by Herb Scribner
Quitting your old habits at the start of a new year may not be the best strategy if you really want to dump them.

You may have to wait until you switch homes or get a different job.

Recent research from the University of Bath has found that making a major life change will help you drop your bad habits. The study, which looked into a theory called habit discontinuity, found that your lifestyle choices can change when your life also takes a different turn.

This is because those major life changes make people feel more open to new information and suggestions, which can help them avoid their bad habits, Tech Times reported. The researchers called this time a window of opportunity, which lasts about three months.

"Life transitions, such as moving house or changing jobs, presents a real opportunity to influence the choices people make. Often, around the time of a major change, life can be up in the air and as such we know that people are generally more open to new ideas and information," professor Bas Verplanken, the lead author of the study, told Tech Times.

To find this, researchers looked to see if 800 participants half of which had moved from their house in the last six months changed their minds about recycling and energy use. They were given some sustainable products that would help them recycle and given a bus schedule so they could use less fuel. Those who had moved were more likely to change their habits.

The researchers suggest that people should work together to find better opportunities in career and life goals for those who want to break their habits so that they can improve their situations, Tech Times reported.

This research is backed up by a study earlier this year from Duke University that found breaking bad habits requires the brain to go through a sort of stop-and-go phenomenon.

Controlled by the basal ganglia a complex region of the brain that controls good habits, motor actions, bad habits and compulsive behaviours, CBC reported these signals either give you the go-ahead to do something, or give you the willpower to stop doing it. These go signals are often ignited when we form habits, and it requires a lot of work to overcome them.

Normally, in order to do something that is not habitual, we have to overcome the stop signal with conscious control. We have to tell our bodies to overcome that inhibition, CBC reported.

That usually means having to stop doing the habit enough that the go signal stops igniting and weakens, CBC reported.

Breaking a bad habit isnt easy for anyone, and its often debated about how long it takes to truly break one. The aforementioned University of Bath study said people with bad habits take about three months to fully break them.

But there may not be an actual amount of time, according to researchers who recently spoke to Science Alert. Breaking bad habits sometimes requires people to find a different habit to replace their bad one, and it can take anywhere between 21 to 66 days to form that new habit.

"It's much easier to start doing something new than to stop doing something habitual without a replacement behaviour," neuroscientist Elliot Berkman told Science Alert. "That's one reason why smoking cessation aids such as nicotine gum or inhalers tend to be more effective than the nicotine patch."

To get people to break their bad habits, then, Berkman suggests people seek sources of motivation to increase their drive to quit. The replacement behavior is one way, but its possible to eliminate your habit altogether without replacing it with another.

Those who want to follow that path need to be patient, though, as it may take time for them to stop doing something theyve been doing for awhile.

"Longtime habits are literally entrenched at the neural level, so they are powerful determinants of behavior," Berkman said. "The good news is that people are nearly always capable of doing something else when they're made aware of the habit and are sufficiently motivated to change."
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How to avoid 'sharenting' and other paparazzi parenting habits
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A recent study revealed parents often spend up to two hours staging a single photo of his or her child to post online. - photo by Amy Iverson
Before having kids, some people just dont appreciate their friends baby posts. But after having a child of their own, three fourths of new parents jump right on the parental social media bandwagon. If you have become a member of this group, there are some rules to follow for posting responsibly.

Much of a parents worry is how to teach their children to use social media responsibly. We talk with our kids about privacy, oversharing, and setting restrictions on their devices to keep them safe. But parents themselves need to look in the digital mirror once in a while. Before having children, it doesnt take as much effort to think about what to post online. Its up to us to decide what we share about our own lives. But once you become a parent, there are many questions to think about regarding what is appropriate to post about your kids on social media.

In a recent survey, kids clothing subscription company Mac and Mia surveyed 2000 new parents to find out how they are documenting their kids lives on social media, and what concerns they may have.

First of all, people without children seem to feel a bit differently about the onslaught of baby pictures online than those who are parents. 18 percent of people say before they had kids, they were annoyed by their friends baby posts. But after having children of their own, 73 percent admit they post progress pictures of their little ones every single month.

Not only are new parents letting the world know each time their baby is a month older, but they are posting about their kids every few days or so. Men and women report they post 6-7 times per month about their baby.

And while 70 percent of new parents say the benefit of using social media is how easy it is to help family and friends feel involved, there are some downsides. Here are a few tips to avoid the pitfall of becoming paparazzi parents.

Dont miss the moment

In the Mac and Mia survey, some parents admitted to spending up to two hours to get the perfect shot of their baby. That seems a little extreme. New and old parents alike should be careful about spending so much time taking pictures and videos that they dont enjoy the moment. Years ago, I decided to never live an experience through my phone. A study by Linda Henkel, a psychology professor at Fairfield University in Connecticut, found that when people took pictures of objects in an art museum, they didnt remember the objects as well as if they simply observed them.

This photo-taking impairment effect can happen to parents as well. If we are so consumed by getting the perfect photo, we can miss out on the moment all together, and our memory of it will suffer.

Dont forget about privacy

60 percent of couples say they have discussed rules and boundaries for posting their babys photos, according to the Mac and Mia survey. Even so, men are 34 percent more likely to publish baby posts on public accounts. If parents are concerned about their childrens privacy, keeping photos off of public accounts is a given.

In the Washington Post, Stacey Steinberg, a legal skills professor at the University of Florida, and Bahareh Keith, a Portland pediatrician, wrote that sharing too much information about kids online puts them at risk. They write that all that sharenting can make it easier for data thieves to target out kids for identity theft. Check that your privacy settings are where they should be and never share identifying information like full names and birth dates.

Dont be paparazzi parents

36 percent of parents say they take issue when their childs photo is posted online by someone else. Responsible social media users will always ask permission before posting a photo of another child. But parents should also think about whether their own children will take issue with their own posted photos a few years down the road.

When parents are constantly snapping pictures and throwing them on social media, it can be easy to forget to pause and make sure the post is appropriate. I always use the billboard example with my kids. I ask them to picture whatever they are posting going up on a billboard in our neighborhood. If they are okay with that, then their post is probably fine. Parents should ask themselves this same question when posting about their children. But they should also ask themselves if their child would be OK with this post on a billboard in 15 years. If it would cause embarrassment or humiliation, it might be best to keep it private.

Once children reach an appropriate age, parents should include them in the process of deciding what pictures are OK to post. Researchers at the University of Michigan surveyed 10- to 17-year-olds and found children believe their parents should ask permission more than parents think they should. The kids in the survey said sharing happy family moments, or accomplishments in sports, school and hobbies is fine. But when the post is negative (like when a child is disciplined) or embarrassing (think naked baby pictures or messy hair), kids say to keep it off social media.
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