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Twins interact with each other as early as 14 weeks in the womb
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There's been a long-held belief that twins have a special bond. And it looks like it starts when they're in the womb together. - photo by Herb Scribner
Its no surprise theres a special bond between twins, but did you know that it begins in the womb?

A 2010 study from researchers at Italys University of Parma and University of Turin found that twins interact socially with each other as early as 14 weeks in the womb, according to Scientific American.

The results suggest that twin fetuses are aware of their counterparts in the womb, that they prefer to interact with them, and that they respond to them in special ways, according to Scientific American.

To find this, researchers used ultrasonography to survey five pairs of twin fetuses for 20 minutes at a time. The scientists found that by the 14th week, babies spent less time focusing on themselves and more on their twins, Scientific American reported.

Four weeks later, the twins spent more time contacting their partners than themselves or the walls of the uterus with 30 percent of their time in the womb being spent interacting with their twin alone, according to Scientific American.

The interactions included stroking their twin's head or back, The Epoch Times reported.

Researchers said in the study that this finding shows babies engage in social behavior earlier than expected.

The womb is probably a crucial starting point to develop a sense of self and a sense of others, the studys co-author, Vittorio Gales, told Scientific American.

The study may also be an indication of how early twins develop a shared special bond.

There are more than 1 million sets of twins in the United States, according to The Atlantic. And that number may only be going up. In 2009, 1 in 33 U.S. births were twins, which is up from the 1 in 53 twin births in 1980, according to the Centers of Disease Control and Prevention. Thats a rise of almost 76 percent.

Theres been this long-held belief that twins share a strong bond with each other throughout their lives. For example, some believe in something called twin telepathy an ability shared by twins to finish each others sentences, know what the other is thinking and feel sympathy pains, LiveScience reported.

Stories also abound about twins who, because of their bond, have found each other after being separated, and have strong relationships with their siblings.

And research confirms many of these findings.

Recognizing your same traits in another person may set off emotional and cognitive processes that facilitate bonding, wrote Nancy Segal of The New York Times Gray Matter blog.

As our own Lois Collins reported in August of last year, a study from the Karolinska Institutet in Stockholm found that twins often have the same level of musical talent no matter how much one practices more than another.

"Researchers compared pairs of identical twins and found that no matter how hard one twin had practiced up to that point in their life, the other twin who had practiced much less still had an equal level of ability in certain musical skills," LiveScience reported on the study.

Some, like Segal, said this is because twins share certain genetic traits.

But not everyones convinced that twins have this special bond.

Any two people who know each other very well and who have shared many common experiences including non-twin siblings, old married couples and even best friends may complete each other's sentences and have a pretty good idea about what the other person is thinking, according to LiveScience.

Researchers at Queensland University of Technology announced a study in 2011 that planned to look into whether or not there really was a special bond between twins. They wanted to evaluate relationships shared between both identical and fraternal twins 5 to 10 years old, according to a QUT statement.

"There is an assumption that a twin relationship is unique," professor Karen Thorpe, a member of the research team, said in a statement. "People culturally are fascinated by twins and believe they have a close relationship but whether that is different from any other sibling relationship has not been studied."

The studys results have yet to be published.

Getting twins to bond isnt always easy, even though their bond potentially started in the womb. Parents often struggle to get their two babies to get along because both babies need individual attention that may be required at different times, according to Everyday Family, a parenting advice website.

What works for one twin may not work for the other, which often leaves the twins apart from each other during their first year, Everyday Family explained.

The bond between twins wont come until twins are given room to interact and socialize with each other, according to Everyday Family. To help twins build that bond, parents should make sure their twins are often around each other and are happy when that is the case.

There will come a day when you are pulling both of them in a wagon through the yard, listening to them giggle, and realizing in an instant how quickly they have changed, according to Everyday Family. You will look at them and realize that it has been there all along.

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How to avoid 'sharenting' and other paparazzi parenting habits
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A recent study revealed parents often spend up to two hours staging a single photo of his or her child to post online. - photo by Amy Iverson
Before having kids, some people just dont appreciate their friends baby posts. But after having a child of their own, three fourths of new parents jump right on the parental social media bandwagon. If you have become a member of this group, there are some rules to follow for posting responsibly.

Much of a parents worry is how to teach their children to use social media responsibly. We talk with our kids about privacy, oversharing, and setting restrictions on their devices to keep them safe. But parents themselves need to look in the digital mirror once in a while. Before having children, it doesnt take as much effort to think about what to post online. Its up to us to decide what we share about our own lives. But once you become a parent, there are many questions to think about regarding what is appropriate to post about your kids on social media.

In a recent survey, kids clothing subscription company Mac and Mia surveyed 2000 new parents to find out how they are documenting their kids lives on social media, and what concerns they may have.

First of all, people without children seem to feel a bit differently about the onslaught of baby pictures online than those who are parents. 18 percent of people say before they had kids, they were annoyed by their friends baby posts. But after having children of their own, 73 percent admit they post progress pictures of their little ones every single month.

Not only are new parents letting the world know each time their baby is a month older, but they are posting about their kids every few days or so. Men and women report they post 6-7 times per month about their baby.

And while 70 percent of new parents say the benefit of using social media is how easy it is to help family and friends feel involved, there are some downsides. Here are a few tips to avoid the pitfall of becoming paparazzi parents.

Dont miss the moment

In the Mac and Mia survey, some parents admitted to spending up to two hours to get the perfect shot of their baby. That seems a little extreme. New and old parents alike should be careful about spending so much time taking pictures and videos that they dont enjoy the moment. Years ago, I decided to never live an experience through my phone. A study by Linda Henkel, a psychology professor at Fairfield University in Connecticut, found that when people took pictures of objects in an art museum, they didnt remember the objects as well as if they simply observed them.

This photo-taking impairment effect can happen to parents as well. If we are so consumed by getting the perfect photo, we can miss out on the moment all together, and our memory of it will suffer.

Dont forget about privacy

60 percent of couples say they have discussed rules and boundaries for posting their babys photos, according to the Mac and Mia survey. Even so, men are 34 percent more likely to publish baby posts on public accounts. If parents are concerned about their childrens privacy, keeping photos off of public accounts is a given.

In the Washington Post, Stacey Steinberg, a legal skills professor at the University of Florida, and Bahareh Keith, a Portland pediatrician, wrote that sharing too much information about kids online puts them at risk. They write that all that sharenting can make it easier for data thieves to target out kids for identity theft. Check that your privacy settings are where they should be and never share identifying information like full names and birth dates.

Dont be paparazzi parents

36 percent of parents say they take issue when their childs photo is posted online by someone else. Responsible social media users will always ask permission before posting a photo of another child. But parents should also think about whether their own children will take issue with their own posted photos a few years down the road.

When parents are constantly snapping pictures and throwing them on social media, it can be easy to forget to pause and make sure the post is appropriate. I always use the billboard example with my kids. I ask them to picture whatever they are posting going up on a billboard in our neighborhood. If they are okay with that, then their post is probably fine. Parents should ask themselves this same question when posting about their children. But they should also ask themselves if their child would be OK with this post on a billboard in 15 years. If it would cause embarrassment or humiliation, it might be best to keep it private.

Once children reach an appropriate age, parents should include them in the process of deciding what pictures are OK to post. Researchers at the University of Michigan surveyed 10- to 17-year-olds and found children believe their parents should ask permission more than parents think they should. The kids in the survey said sharing happy family moments, or accomplishments in sports, school and hobbies is fine. But when the post is negative (like when a child is disciplined) or embarrassing (think naked baby pictures or messy hair), kids say to keep it off social media.
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