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Matt Cohler helped build Facebook, Snapchat, LinkedIn and Uber. Here's his advice for startups
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Matt Cohler speaks with Josh James at the Silicon Slopes tech summit. - photo by Herb Scribner
Matt Cohler is one of the most influential entreprenuers you've never met.

Cohler, a managing partner at Benchmark, a venture capital firm, worked at several tech industry leaders throughout the United States. He's spent time at Facebook, LinkedIn, Snapchat, Uber, Tinder and Instagram, among others.

And on Thursday, Cohler spoke with Domo founder Josh James at the Silicion Slopes tech summit, an event held by the Silicon Slopes organization that focuses on the growing tech industry.

Cohler spent the bulk of his interview with James speaking about Snapchat and Facebook, two companies that had a tremendous impact on his career and the country alike.

He also told stories about Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg, which taught him about the social network's founder.

Here's a quick look at what Cohler said during the summit.

On Facebook and Mark Zuckerberg:

Cohler told two stories about Facebook that offered him insight into Mark Zuckerberg, and why the social network's founder is heads above the rest of Silicion Slopes leaders.

Back in Facebook's early days, Cohler helped the company obtain investments. Having spent some time at LinkedIn, Cohler learned all the venture capitalists who would invest in social media companies.

Cohler said he convinced Zuckerberg to meet with some investors for dinner. At the meal, Zuckerberg disappeared into the bathroom. Cohler went searching for him. He found him crying on the bathroom floor. Zuckerberg said he couldn't go through with the deal because he already promised somebody else that he or she could be an investor.

It was a remarkable thing to see anybody, especially somebody who was doing this for the first time" break down like that. Cohler said it helped him understand Zuckerberg's character.

The second story focused on Facebook's introduction of the news feed in 2006. He said the company faced so much backlash when it first entered the Facebook product.

But Zuckerberg never wavered.

Cohler said Zuckerberg told him that "this is the future of the company. This is what were here for," and this is showed him something about the Facebook founder.

Theres always been a clarity of purpose, which I think it defines all great entrepreneurs.

On Snapchat:

Cohler said Snapchat's beginnings almost doomed the app. Media and reviews identified it as an app for sexting.

Thats what people talked about," he said. "Yeah, people must be using this for sexting.

But Cohler found something different with the app's users teenage girls used the app to share selfies with each other. Investors saw the app connected people to each other in a more personal way.

It was a form of communication. A new form of communication," he said. "More than anything, it makes you feel like youre physically present with a person. Like youre actually there in the same space as a person. That was a powerful, emotional thing for people early on.

He said Snapchat taught him a valuble lesson: You start by unlocking this little problem.

Advice for startups:

Cohler said he learned a lot about how start a business through working with investors.

There are so many things that can not go right," he said.

For example, if the early 2000s app Friendster grew quicker and had more marketshare, then Facebook would never be where it is today, he said.

He also said it's hard for companies to succeed when they don't leave themselves room to grow. Most apps grow because they spread through networks.

Start with something specific, but not have it so specifically hard coded that you dont leave yourself somewhere to go," he said.
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How to avoid 'sharenting' and other paparazzi parenting habits
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A recent study revealed parents often spend up to two hours staging a single photo of his or her child to post online. - photo by Amy Iverson
Before having kids, some people just dont appreciate their friends baby posts. But after having a child of their own, three fourths of new parents jump right on the parental social media bandwagon. If you have become a member of this group, there are some rules to follow for posting responsibly.

Much of a parents worry is how to teach their children to use social media responsibly. We talk with our kids about privacy, oversharing, and setting restrictions on their devices to keep them safe. But parents themselves need to look in the digital mirror once in a while. Before having children, it doesnt take as much effort to think about what to post online. Its up to us to decide what we share about our own lives. But once you become a parent, there are many questions to think about regarding what is appropriate to post about your kids on social media.

In a recent survey, kids clothing subscription company Mac and Mia surveyed 2000 new parents to find out how they are documenting their kids lives on social media, and what concerns they may have.

First of all, people without children seem to feel a bit differently about the onslaught of baby pictures online than those who are parents. 18 percent of people say before they had kids, they were annoyed by their friends baby posts. But after having children of their own, 73 percent admit they post progress pictures of their little ones every single month.

Not only are new parents letting the world know each time their baby is a month older, but they are posting about their kids every few days or so. Men and women report they post 6-7 times per month about their baby.

And while 70 percent of new parents say the benefit of using social media is how easy it is to help family and friends feel involved, there are some downsides. Here are a few tips to avoid the pitfall of becoming paparazzi parents.

Dont miss the moment

In the Mac and Mia survey, some parents admitted to spending up to two hours to get the perfect shot of their baby. That seems a little extreme. New and old parents alike should be careful about spending so much time taking pictures and videos that they dont enjoy the moment. Years ago, I decided to never live an experience through my phone. A study by Linda Henkel, a psychology professor at Fairfield University in Connecticut, found that when people took pictures of objects in an art museum, they didnt remember the objects as well as if they simply observed them.

This photo-taking impairment effect can happen to parents as well. If we are so consumed by getting the perfect photo, we can miss out on the moment all together, and our memory of it will suffer.

Dont forget about privacy

60 percent of couples say they have discussed rules and boundaries for posting their babys photos, according to the Mac and Mia survey. Even so, men are 34 percent more likely to publish baby posts on public accounts. If parents are concerned about their childrens privacy, keeping photos off of public accounts is a given.

In the Washington Post, Stacey Steinberg, a legal skills professor at the University of Florida, and Bahareh Keith, a Portland pediatrician, wrote that sharing too much information about kids online puts them at risk. They write that all that sharenting can make it easier for data thieves to target out kids for identity theft. Check that your privacy settings are where they should be and never share identifying information like full names and birth dates.

Dont be paparazzi parents

36 percent of parents say they take issue when their childs photo is posted online by someone else. Responsible social media users will always ask permission before posting a photo of another child. But parents should also think about whether their own children will take issue with their own posted photos a few years down the road.

When parents are constantly snapping pictures and throwing them on social media, it can be easy to forget to pause and make sure the post is appropriate. I always use the billboard example with my kids. I ask them to picture whatever they are posting going up on a billboard in our neighborhood. If they are okay with that, then their post is probably fine. Parents should ask themselves this same question when posting about their children. But they should also ask themselves if their child would be OK with this post on a billboard in 15 years. If it would cause embarrassment or humiliation, it might be best to keep it private.

Once children reach an appropriate age, parents should include them in the process of deciding what pictures are OK to post. Researchers at the University of Michigan surveyed 10- to 17-year-olds and found children believe their parents should ask permission more than parents think they should. The kids in the survey said sharing happy family moments, or accomplishments in sports, school and hobbies is fine. But when the post is negative (like when a child is disciplined) or embarrassing (think naked baby pictures or messy hair), kids say to keep it off social media.
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