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Celebrate the Chinese New Year by giving your baby a Chinese name
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Mark Zuckerberg just gave his daughter a Chinese baby name to honor his wife's culture. Here's how you can be just like Zuck. - photo by Herb Scribner
In celebration of the Chinese New Year, Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg and his wife Priscilla Chan published a video on Facebook in which the couple talked about their daughter, Max, and how they had chosen a Chinese name for her.

Speaking in Mandarin, the couple said they had given her the Chinese name Chen Mingyu, which means Break of the day and enlightening as Chans family name and "represents our hope for a brighter tomorrow for the world, Zuckerberg said.

Chinese baby names arent anything unfamiliar for Americans, as some parents will give their children one either because of their familys heritage or to celebrate Chinese culture.

This is also because Chinese names often have deeper meanings, stemming from Chinese history.

According to Baby Names, 5,000 years of Chinese heritage brings names that symbolize ancient treasures, virtues, and serenity. There is immense diversity due to Mandarin and Cantonese dialects, different dynasties and religious influence like Buddhism, Taoism and Confucianism.

Many of these meanings are inspirational. The name Ai, for example, means Lovable, while An means tranquil and Chang means Thriving, Baby Names explained.

Funny enough, Chinese parents have recently decided to name their babies after English names. Slates Huan Hsu looked into this craze, and found that standard American names, like Jackie or Ivy, are commonplace in Chinese culture. So too are odd English words, like Sniper and King Kong. Hsu himself was even referred to as Steve during his time in China.

These Chinese parents tend to be from families in urban areas or who have access to education. Some Chinese classes teach English, and instructors and parents alike want children to be familiar with the language, so they give them English names, Hsu wrote.

China now churns out approximately 20 million English speakers each year, and the estimated number of English learners in China is in the hundreds of millions, Hsu wrote. In fact, there are probably as many Chinese who can read this sentence as Americans.

Thats a trend not lost on American students, who will also adopt Chinese names to help them become more familiar with the language. Emily Liedel or Ali Mili in Chinese wrote for The Guardian that its important to get these names right whether youre a parent naming your child something Chinese or you yourself are adopting a Chinese name since Chinese names tend to have familial connections and are often rooted in history.

Theres also a sense of respect that comes with a Chinese name, so choosing the right one is important as to not disrespect the history associated with the name.

Liedel wrote that Chinese names are also important since they offer children a potential chance for success because the names translation could be an inspiring and uplifting message for the child, like how Ling means soaring.

At the same time, some of the names could have a less positive effect because they sound like theyre from other cultures. Liedel specifically mentions the name Xi, which sounds Korean, and may make people think you dont necessarily understand Chinese culture, which could create some problems adopting to the Chinese way of living.

Liedel suggests then that parents be careful with their choice, making sure to pick a name that matches the influence they want it to have on their child.

These Chinese names should also be short, the last name should come first as it does in Chinese culture, and people need to choose a name that fits their lifestyle.

Youre looking for a name that will be with you for the rest of your life, she wrote, so take your time.

Need some help deciding? Here are the top 10 baby names in China and their deeper meanings.
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How to avoid 'sharenting' and other paparazzi parenting habits
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A recent study revealed parents often spend up to two hours staging a single photo of his or her child to post online. - photo by Amy Iverson
Before having kids, some people just dont appreciate their friends baby posts. But after having a child of their own, three fourths of new parents jump right on the parental social media bandwagon. If you have become a member of this group, there are some rules to follow for posting responsibly.

Much of a parents worry is how to teach their children to use social media responsibly. We talk with our kids about privacy, oversharing, and setting restrictions on their devices to keep them safe. But parents themselves need to look in the digital mirror once in a while. Before having children, it doesnt take as much effort to think about what to post online. Its up to us to decide what we share about our own lives. But once you become a parent, there are many questions to think about regarding what is appropriate to post about your kids on social media.

In a recent survey, kids clothing subscription company Mac and Mia surveyed 2000 new parents to find out how they are documenting their kids lives on social media, and what concerns they may have.

First of all, people without children seem to feel a bit differently about the onslaught of baby pictures online than those who are parents. 18 percent of people say before they had kids, they were annoyed by their friends baby posts. But after having children of their own, 73 percent admit they post progress pictures of their little ones every single month.

Not only are new parents letting the world know each time their baby is a month older, but they are posting about their kids every few days or so. Men and women report they post 6-7 times per month about their baby.

And while 70 percent of new parents say the benefit of using social media is how easy it is to help family and friends feel involved, there are some downsides. Here are a few tips to avoid the pitfall of becoming paparazzi parents.

Dont miss the moment

In the Mac and Mia survey, some parents admitted to spending up to two hours to get the perfect shot of their baby. That seems a little extreme. New and old parents alike should be careful about spending so much time taking pictures and videos that they dont enjoy the moment. Years ago, I decided to never live an experience through my phone. A study by Linda Henkel, a psychology professor at Fairfield University in Connecticut, found that when people took pictures of objects in an art museum, they didnt remember the objects as well as if they simply observed them.

This photo-taking impairment effect can happen to parents as well. If we are so consumed by getting the perfect photo, we can miss out on the moment all together, and our memory of it will suffer.

Dont forget about privacy

60 percent of couples say they have discussed rules and boundaries for posting their babys photos, according to the Mac and Mia survey. Even so, men are 34 percent more likely to publish baby posts on public accounts. If parents are concerned about their childrens privacy, keeping photos off of public accounts is a given.

In the Washington Post, Stacey Steinberg, a legal skills professor at the University of Florida, and Bahareh Keith, a Portland pediatrician, wrote that sharing too much information about kids online puts them at risk. They write that all that sharenting can make it easier for data thieves to target out kids for identity theft. Check that your privacy settings are where they should be and never share identifying information like full names and birth dates.

Dont be paparazzi parents

36 percent of parents say they take issue when their childs photo is posted online by someone else. Responsible social media users will always ask permission before posting a photo of another child. But parents should also think about whether their own children will take issue with their own posted photos a few years down the road.

When parents are constantly snapping pictures and throwing them on social media, it can be easy to forget to pause and make sure the post is appropriate. I always use the billboard example with my kids. I ask them to picture whatever they are posting going up on a billboard in our neighborhood. If they are okay with that, then their post is probably fine. Parents should ask themselves this same question when posting about their children. But they should also ask themselves if their child would be OK with this post on a billboard in 15 years. If it would cause embarrassment or humiliation, it might be best to keep it private.

Once children reach an appropriate age, parents should include them in the process of deciding what pictures are OK to post. Researchers at the University of Michigan surveyed 10- to 17-year-olds and found children believe their parents should ask permission more than parents think they should. The kids in the survey said sharing happy family moments, or accomplishments in sports, school and hobbies is fine. But when the post is negative (like when a child is disciplined) or embarrassing (think naked baby pictures or messy hair), kids say to keep it off social media.
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