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Batman v. Superman is definitely not for kids, or even some adults
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Ben Affleck as Batman and Henry Cavill as Superman in Warner Bros. Pictures' action adventure "Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice," a Warner Bros. Pictures release, scheduled to be in theaters March 25, 2016. - photo by Herb Scribner
Batman v. Superman: Dawn of Justice is every comic book fans dream. Finally, after all these years, moviegoers get to see the two superhero giants clash in a battle to the death on the big screen.

Unfortunately, children may have to miss out.

The new film, that debuted Thursday night with a $27.7 million opening (the seventh-biggest midnight opening of all time), according to Forbes, tells the story of, well, how Batman and Superman finally fight. The film shows Bruce Wayne (Ben Affleck) and Clark Kent (Henry Cavill) struggle to accept the other heros place in the world, leading to an inevitable clash between the two titans, as well as a final confrontation (with the help of Wonder Woman, played by Gal Gadot) against the villainous Doomsday.

The movies opening numbers were high and the projected weekend earnings look good. Reviewers have mostly praised the films cinematography, saying its unmatched by any other superhero film. And while reviewers remain mostly split about the movie overall, others have mentioned that the movie is a really fun ride and isnt meant to be an overall masterpiece. So, in a way for some superhero fans, it works.

But some reviewers have pointed out some fatal flaws with the film, specifically that it has so much mature and adult content that it is unsafe for families and children.

For example, CNETs Richard Trenholm wrote that the film isnt the superhero movie your kids deserve. The films director Zack Synder creates a grim and dark superhero world, one that is a very grown-up vision of the DC Comics universe. Not only is it loud, complicated and long, but the film also doesnt give children any sense of hope, or a movie that they can look back on in the future in a positive light.

Movies with superhero characters often define how a generation views that character for the future, Trenholm wrote. People who grew up with the comics would see Superman and Batman in a much different way than kids of today would see the characters based on this most recent movie, in which Superman and Batman are both dark, gritty and adult.

So if the dark vision of Dawn of Justice creates the definitive version of Superman and Batman for this generation's kids, I feel sorry for them, Trenholm wrote. My friend asked me if he could take his 6-year-old to see it. Nope. No way. The endless philosophical chat, the unremitting doom-laden score and the brutal, graphic violence will surely inspire more sleepless nights than daydreams that a man can fly.

In fact, Trenholm said Superman is not the beacon of hope that were all accustomed to. Hes shown as a troubled god in the movie, one thats almost like a more evil Prince Charming than kindly benefactor.

The same can be said for Batman. Most comic book readers and moviegoers know the moral code behind Batman, specifically that he doesnt kill. Thats not the case with this Batman.

He drives round in a tank, pancaking and barbecuing cars full of henchmen, spraying bullets all over the shop, casually sending grenades and knives back the way they came, Trenholm wrote.

But its more than just issues with the characters. The movie is packed with profane language, including violence that just becomes brutal and a very sexual scene at the start, according to Trevor Norkey of MoviePilot.

The film also has an anti-religious message, Norkey wrote. In the film, Superman is billed as a god and Batman is heralded as a representation of humanity.

So, being that this is the case, one of the films antagonists Lex Luthor (Jesse Eisenberg) continually trounces on religion.

Some of the characters, especially Lex Luthor, give off a very anti-religion theme throughout. They do this by consistently referring to Superman as God and referring to Doomsday as the devil, Norkey wrote. Luthor goes on and on about how humanity needs to overcome and kill God, even if it means siding with the devil. No matter what religion you follow, this is not really a good theme you want to put in your child's head at an early age.

Its not too surprising that Batman v. Superman doesnt fit with the family friendly model. After all, the other recent comic book film Deadpool wasnt for families, either. As I wrote for Deseret News National, that film was packed with raunchy comedy and graphic violence. And, like Batman v. Superman, the film received negative reviews from some media critics because it didnt resonate with family friendly audiences, who enjoy comic book movies.

We're a little bit unapologetic in how raunchy it is because you shouldn't bring your 6-year-old to see this movie. Unless you're a very irresponsible parent, Paul Wernick, one of the films producers, told Time magazine.

Of course, your child should know the darker versions of Batman and Superman seen in Batman v. Superman arent the only ones that have existed. In fact, there are a number of versions of the characters that have shared positive messages. Heres a look at 10 positive moments from Superman and Batman weve seen throughout popular culture history.

That time Batman saved Superman

In one of the animated Batman series, the Dark Knight actually saves Superman when the Man of Steel is held up by Doomsday.

That time Batman saved Jim Gordon

As Jim Gordon walks precariously on thin ice, which is supposed to break and kill him, Batman returns and saves his friend by taking out some thugs and letting the city know hes returned.

and John Blake

Batman didnt just save Gordon in The Dark Knight Rises. Heres an early instance in the film when Batman saves the day for his friend John Blake.

That time Batman saved Aquaman

During the Justice League animated series, Aquaman finds himself incapacitated and close to death due to lack of water, but Batman arrives and saves the day.

That time Batman saved Selina Kyle

In Batman Returns, one of the Tim Burton Batman films, Batman rescues his love Selina Kyle in a rather tricky yet clever way.

Superman saves a plane full of people

Yeah. Superman didnt always cause havoc like he does in Batman v. Superman. He actually once saved an entire plane.

and a train

Oh no! The trains going to run off the tracks.

Enter Superman.

Superman saves his own love

Like Batman did with Kyle, Superman also saved the love of his life, Lois Lane, in a rather clever way.

Superman saves Metropolis

In this 2006 film version of Superman, the hero returns to Metropolis and saves everyone who lives there in a rather miraculous move.

Superman saves John Henry Irons Steel

So some steel workers find themselves under attack, until Superman comes along and rescues them all.
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How to avoid 'sharenting' and other paparazzi parenting habits
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A recent study revealed parents often spend up to two hours staging a single photo of his or her child to post online. - photo by Amy Iverson
Before having kids, some people just dont appreciate their friends baby posts. But after having a child of their own, three fourths of new parents jump right on the parental social media bandwagon. If you have become a member of this group, there are some rules to follow for posting responsibly.

Much of a parents worry is how to teach their children to use social media responsibly. We talk with our kids about privacy, oversharing, and setting restrictions on their devices to keep them safe. But parents themselves need to look in the digital mirror once in a while. Before having children, it doesnt take as much effort to think about what to post online. Its up to us to decide what we share about our own lives. But once you become a parent, there are many questions to think about regarding what is appropriate to post about your kids on social media.

In a recent survey, kids clothing subscription company Mac and Mia surveyed 2000 new parents to find out how they are documenting their kids lives on social media, and what concerns they may have.

First of all, people without children seem to feel a bit differently about the onslaught of baby pictures online than those who are parents. 18 percent of people say before they had kids, they were annoyed by their friends baby posts. But after having children of their own, 73 percent admit they post progress pictures of their little ones every single month.

Not only are new parents letting the world know each time their baby is a month older, but they are posting about their kids every few days or so. Men and women report they post 6-7 times per month about their baby.

And while 70 percent of new parents say the benefit of using social media is how easy it is to help family and friends feel involved, there are some downsides. Here are a few tips to avoid the pitfall of becoming paparazzi parents.

Dont miss the moment

In the Mac and Mia survey, some parents admitted to spending up to two hours to get the perfect shot of their baby. That seems a little extreme. New and old parents alike should be careful about spending so much time taking pictures and videos that they dont enjoy the moment. Years ago, I decided to never live an experience through my phone. A study by Linda Henkel, a psychology professor at Fairfield University in Connecticut, found that when people took pictures of objects in an art museum, they didnt remember the objects as well as if they simply observed them.

This photo-taking impairment effect can happen to parents as well. If we are so consumed by getting the perfect photo, we can miss out on the moment all together, and our memory of it will suffer.

Dont forget about privacy

60 percent of couples say they have discussed rules and boundaries for posting their babys photos, according to the Mac and Mia survey. Even so, men are 34 percent more likely to publish baby posts on public accounts. If parents are concerned about their childrens privacy, keeping photos off of public accounts is a given.

In the Washington Post, Stacey Steinberg, a legal skills professor at the University of Florida, and Bahareh Keith, a Portland pediatrician, wrote that sharing too much information about kids online puts them at risk. They write that all that sharenting can make it easier for data thieves to target out kids for identity theft. Check that your privacy settings are where they should be and never share identifying information like full names and birth dates.

Dont be paparazzi parents

36 percent of parents say they take issue when their childs photo is posted online by someone else. Responsible social media users will always ask permission before posting a photo of another child. But parents should also think about whether their own children will take issue with their own posted photos a few years down the road.

When parents are constantly snapping pictures and throwing them on social media, it can be easy to forget to pause and make sure the post is appropriate. I always use the billboard example with my kids. I ask them to picture whatever they are posting going up on a billboard in our neighborhood. If they are okay with that, then their post is probably fine. Parents should ask themselves this same question when posting about their children. But they should also ask themselves if their child would be OK with this post on a billboard in 15 years. If it would cause embarrassment or humiliation, it might be best to keep it private.

Once children reach an appropriate age, parents should include them in the process of deciding what pictures are OK to post. Researchers at the University of Michigan surveyed 10- to 17-year-olds and found children believe their parents should ask permission more than parents think they should. The kids in the survey said sharing happy family moments, or accomplishments in sports, school and hobbies is fine. But when the post is negative (like when a child is disciplined) or embarrassing (think naked baby pictures or messy hair), kids say to keep it off social media.
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