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7 dumb money mistakes your new adult children will make
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Young adults can make all sorts of financial decisions that can have long-term consequences for good or ill. Here are seven mistakes to avoid. - photo by Don Milne
Before your children turn 18, they are considered minors by law and are limited in what they can do with money. But once they are legal adults, they can make all sorts of financial decisions that can have long-term consequences for good or ill. Without wise parental advice, more often than not, they will make plenty of money mistakes. Heres a helpful list that you should share with your young adult children.

1. Overdrafts.

Getting your own checking account is a sign of being a grown up, but if you dont manage it correctly, you can have your account closed down. This can result when you write checks when there are inadequate funds in the account. Not only does this result in having to pay back money you didnt have, there are also penalty fees to pay. If you are unable to pay back the bank in a short period of time, you will lose your account and find it difficult to open another account elsewhere. To keep this from happening, you need to maintain a high enough balance so you wont go in the hole. Youll need to reconcile your check register balance to the bank balance on a frequent basis. Most young people dont do this. If you dont, set up an account that doesnt allow automatic overdrafts and does not allow check writing. This will reduce the chances of encountering an overdraft situation. You will still be able to pay bills using online bill pay and a debit card.

2. Too Much Car.

Youll enjoy the independence that comes from having your own car. But all the financial costs that come with car ownership are often overlooked. Owning a car means paying for insurance, maintenance and repairs. Many people decide to take out a loan so they can own a more expensive car. A higher loan payment for a more expensive car takes away money that could be used elsewhere. Also, circumstances change, and you may need to sell the car if you lose a job or otherwise cant afford the payments. Over time, cars go down in value. Some people trying to sell a car may find they owe more than it is worth. Its known as being underwater. Its no fun to sell a car and still have to come up with extra money to pay off the car loan.

3. Budgeting.

Many new adults still live at home. If that is you, you may be living rent free and having Mom and Dad buy the groceries. If you are working 40 hours a week, you could be bringing home hundreds of dollars a month that you may be frittering away on entertainment, clothing and stuff you wish your parents would buy for you. But an adult without a budget is not a grownup. Do yourself a favor and have a written plan for your money each time you get paid. Make savings a priority. Put a cap on how much you will spend on eating out, clothing, and entertainment. An easy way to do this is to use cash for these categories so when you are done spending the cash you are done spending money altogether until the pay period.

4. Memberships.

Once you have your own checking account, some businesses will try to sign you up for monthly memberships. These bills are deducted from your checking account whether you use them or not. Think twice before signing up for a deluxe gym plan, online game subscription, diet meal plan, music subscription, specialty life insurance, or other monthly payments. These can add up to hundreds and maybe thousands of dollars over time.

5. ID Theft.

Somebody with a spotless credit history but lacks experience in financial matters is an appealing target to identity thieves. You need to guard your personal information from clever crooks. They will make bogus phone calls or send you phony emails pretending to be your bank or creditor. Dont share personal information. Other thieves will use social media to stalk you and find out personal information they can use to assume your identity. Keep your friends as friends, but block out strangers from your social media information.

6. Student Loans.

The cost of college has outpaced inflation for years, so it is not surprising that the majority of college students use student loans. These loans can be a good idea if it helps you get a better paying job with the extra income to pay back the loan. But if your chosen career does not pay very well, a big loan is going to be hard to pay back. Also, many students take out loans and fail to finish school. Its no fun paying back a student loan from a low-income job. Be very careful in deciding to borrow for college.

7. Credit Cards.

Retail stores sometimes market credit cards to young adults with a limited credit history. As a young person with a steady paycheck builds credit, it becomes easier and easier to obtain more charge cards or higher credit limits. Retail stores offer tempting deals to people opening new charge accounts. However, the interest paid makes this an expensive way to pay for things. If you cant pay your charge card bill in full each month, you are better off not using it. Another problem is that if you forget to pay your bill on time, it will cause your credit score to go down. That will make it harder to get credit when you really need it for something important.

Yes, being new to handling money can feel like you are walking through a minefield, but remember, you can keep your finances safe if you avoid these potential traps. You can have fun with your money without doing things you will later regret.
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How to avoid 'sharenting' and other paparazzi parenting habits
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A recent study revealed parents often spend up to two hours staging a single photo of his or her child to post online. - photo by Amy Iverson
Before having kids, some people just dont appreciate their friends baby posts. But after having a child of their own, three fourths of new parents jump right on the parental social media bandwagon. If you have become a member of this group, there are some rules to follow for posting responsibly.

Much of a parents worry is how to teach their children to use social media responsibly. We talk with our kids about privacy, oversharing, and setting restrictions on their devices to keep them safe. But parents themselves need to look in the digital mirror once in a while. Before having children, it doesnt take as much effort to think about what to post online. Its up to us to decide what we share about our own lives. But once you become a parent, there are many questions to think about regarding what is appropriate to post about your kids on social media.

In a recent survey, kids clothing subscription company Mac and Mia surveyed 2000 new parents to find out how they are documenting their kids lives on social media, and what concerns they may have.

First of all, people without children seem to feel a bit differently about the onslaught of baby pictures online than those who are parents. 18 percent of people say before they had kids, they were annoyed by their friends baby posts. But after having children of their own, 73 percent admit they post progress pictures of their little ones every single month.

Not only are new parents letting the world know each time their baby is a month older, but they are posting about their kids every few days or so. Men and women report they post 6-7 times per month about their baby.

And while 70 percent of new parents say the benefit of using social media is how easy it is to help family and friends feel involved, there are some downsides. Here are a few tips to avoid the pitfall of becoming paparazzi parents.

Dont miss the moment

In the Mac and Mia survey, some parents admitted to spending up to two hours to get the perfect shot of their baby. That seems a little extreme. New and old parents alike should be careful about spending so much time taking pictures and videos that they dont enjoy the moment. Years ago, I decided to never live an experience through my phone. A study by Linda Henkel, a psychology professor at Fairfield University in Connecticut, found that when people took pictures of objects in an art museum, they didnt remember the objects as well as if they simply observed them.

This photo-taking impairment effect can happen to parents as well. If we are so consumed by getting the perfect photo, we can miss out on the moment all together, and our memory of it will suffer.

Dont forget about privacy

60 percent of couples say they have discussed rules and boundaries for posting their babys photos, according to the Mac and Mia survey. Even so, men are 34 percent more likely to publish baby posts on public accounts. If parents are concerned about their childrens privacy, keeping photos off of public accounts is a given.

In the Washington Post, Stacey Steinberg, a legal skills professor at the University of Florida, and Bahareh Keith, a Portland pediatrician, wrote that sharing too much information about kids online puts them at risk. They write that all that sharenting can make it easier for data thieves to target out kids for identity theft. Check that your privacy settings are where they should be and never share identifying information like full names and birth dates.

Dont be paparazzi parents

36 percent of parents say they take issue when their childs photo is posted online by someone else. Responsible social media users will always ask permission before posting a photo of another child. But parents should also think about whether their own children will take issue with their own posted photos a few years down the road.

When parents are constantly snapping pictures and throwing them on social media, it can be easy to forget to pause and make sure the post is appropriate. I always use the billboard example with my kids. I ask them to picture whatever they are posting going up on a billboard in our neighborhood. If they are okay with that, then their post is probably fine. Parents should ask themselves this same question when posting about their children. But they should also ask themselves if their child would be OK with this post on a billboard in 15 years. If it would cause embarrassment or humiliation, it might be best to keep it private.

Once children reach an appropriate age, parents should include them in the process of deciding what pictures are OK to post. Researchers at the University of Michigan surveyed 10- to 17-year-olds and found children believe their parents should ask permission more than parents think they should. The kids in the survey said sharing happy family moments, or accomplishments in sports, school and hobbies is fine. But when the post is negative (like when a child is disciplined) or embarrassing (think naked baby pictures or messy hair), kids say to keep it off social media.
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